"I wanted to write about real experiences that happened during my adventure going from "vanilla" to "Vixen."

I want others to learn from my adventures through the lessons I present, to have better experiences and help navigate their own sexuality. This book will be honest, it will be messy, and it will be rated very XXX. It's not all sex-capades and non-stop fun; it's more of a sexual evolution. Sex-positivity is on the rise and it's time to open the discussion!

This book is about the hard conversations, what I messed up on, and how my own hurt and trampled boundaries were addressed. I went from not knowing my boundaries, not knowing how to communicate my needs, wants, and desires to knowing who I am, what I want, what's ok with me and not ok with me, owning my boundaries, and owning my self-worth.

This is not to say that I am perfect; we are all unique, and growth is an ongoing process. We are always learning and growing, and in order to do so, we make mistakes, test our limits, and move forward.

If you are not into growth, self-inquiry, open and honest communication, sexuality, kink and exploration, then please don't read this book. If you are into these things, then let's get messy, sweaty, real and raw!"